Showing posts with label population. Show all posts
Showing posts with label population. Show all posts

Saturday, January 7, 2012

Chemistry in the middle of Two population - Not Just Mad Science

Do you believe your lover and you have chemistry? Well, it appears there definitely is some science behind it. I turns out that you can evaluate a hereafter mates compatibility by comparing their Dna with yours? Mad science? Maybe, but it works.

Chemistry is what helps you make a good choice in a mate. However, it is a choice strictly geared toward reproduction, childbearing, not necessarily on how well your personalities and values mesh. What Dna will help you find is a mate who will turn you on and help you spawn children with strong genes and strong immune systems.

Some dating services are gift to help you find your perfect match this way based on your Dna compatibility.

Apparently, there undoubtedly is something behind the assertion that our pheromones attract others.
By comparing gene pairs, scientists can decide either your sex life will be good and either you will be a good "childbearing" mix.

But nature has allowed us to decide this on our own -- without submitting swabs of our Dna. It is our olfactory sense. Do you ever wonder why you meet someone and abruptly feel sparks? Your body is telling you that this someone is a good match for you to recreate, reproduce, spawn offspring.

Some of the testing behind this Dna matching was done by having women smell men's dirty tshirts. I think they called it the Sweaty Tshirt Experiment or something. It turns out that the tshirts the women found most spirited (I guess that smelled the best to them) belonged to men who were compatible with them based on Dna testing.

Who knew?

And the best match based on Dna, is the one who has some differences in his or her genes than the inherent mate. It seems that the ones with the most similar genes we are not normally attracted to because they are so similar as to be inherent house members.

I guess this was nature's way of preventing birth defects, etc. From incestuous relationships.

When you are a good match genetically, you sacrifice the chances of miscarriages, birth defects and increase the chance of your offspring having a strong immune system.

Some habitancy are trying to capitalize on this by creating dating services that will match you with someone based on your Dna compatibility. Of course, privacy concerns need to be addressed, but the idea sounds fascinating, especially when your first level of choosing someone is based on a picture online or a written profile where you don't have an chance to let that "chemistry" and "pheromones" help your decision-making process.

But what if you don't even want children? Well, it still helps you find a mate with whom you will share a strong sexual attraction, which is foremost in any relationship.

However, it seems the true value of this science may be for those visiting a sperm bank in an endeavor to have children. They will be able to find someone whose Dna will help them birth a child with strong genes and strong immune systems.

Friday, December 30, 2011

Sexual Chemistry in the middle of Two population - Do You Have It?

Some relationships shimmer with sexual chemistry - and some just do not have it. How do you know if you have sexual chemistry with your partner and what do you do when it is missing?

As a sex coach I am often asked about sexual chemistry between two people and sadly, when I am asked about it, it is commonly not there. When there is sexual chemistry in a relationship, it is hard to miss it.

Sexual chemistry is the sexual power between two people. It is that phenomenal feeling of desire and passion towards another person. A association without sexual attraction is a friendship. If you do not lust after your partner, they may be a phenomenal friend, but not man that you want to make love to for the rest of your life. In this regard, it can be deeply disappointing for a incorporate who are commonly well matched to contemplate that they do not complement each other all that well once the bedroom door is closed.

A lack of chemistry is not necessarily mutual either. It may be that one man gets turned on by another and therefore finds it very difficult to understand why their feelings are not reciprocated. However, it is unlikely that sexual feelings towards a sexual partner will ever convert drastically if the spark is not there in the first place. You either have chemistry or you do not.

Why enter into a association without sexual chemistry?

Women in singular sometimes pick to commit to partners for reasons that have nothing to do with their sexuality. For example, a woman may pick a reliable, strong, trustworthy, responsible man to build a house with - it is an instinct that goes back to the caveman (or woman) days. Having man to protect and contribute for you and your offspring seems to be more leading when choosing a mate than sexual satisfaction at the time.

A few years on, women in relationships without sexual chemistry find that they are profoundly dissatisfied and want more. It is animated that women often start questioning their own happiness levels on many dissimilar fronts at the age of forty and beyond. Sexually it has to do with realizing that you are getting older and a fear that you may not be as desirable as you were when you were twenty years younger - and wanting to make the most of the years you have left. There is nothing wrong with that of course, but it can lead to a lot of soul-searching - and some women make drastic changes to try and accommodate their own needs.

It is not all the time potential to boost sexual chemistry between two people dramatically if it lacks in the first instance, but you still have to take responsibility to be your best sexual self in any association if you pick to be in it. Make sure you educate yourself well. There is power in knowledge.